Have you ever wondered what you could do as a husband to help strengthen your relationship with your wife? Or wondered how you could take your sex life from dull and infrequent to a night to night sexcapade? A time not so long ago, I found myself asking myself that very question. My wife and I had come to a time in our marriage, where our sex life was not what I think either of us wanted and honestly, things started to look bleak. Of Course, this was very displeasing and I knew I had to do something. Being the knowledge driven person that I am, I started to research what I could do to remedy this situation. So, I looked and looked and tried all kinds of things to see if anything would work to shake this funk we were in. Ultimately, I found 2 very simple things that worked for me. I had to be totally open with her about how I felt, even if it was unpleasant and if I wanted our sex life back I was going to have to be open with her about my fantasies and desires. This is exactly what I did and the outcome has been amazing. Below I have put 3 examples of the ways making an effort to be a better husband and more open with my wife has turned my sex life upside down and strengthened our relationship.
2. I found that being so honest and open with my wife about my desires, She was much more willing to open up to me about her own sexual desires. It's sometimes hard for someone to bare your inner most desires with another person. Being vulnerable with her myself, has made her feel much more secure doing the same. This openness has led us to a lot of conversations about our own individual sexuality and fantasies which has only strengthened our relationship even more. The overall benefit of this is knowing your partner on a deeper level both sexually and emotionally. This deeper understanding has been vital in my attempts to better myself as a husband and reignite that intimate spark with my wife.
Sometimes it's the small things that matter the most. I think we all should look a little harder at ourselves, what kind of partner are we being to our significant other. The changes I've seen from just self reflection and openness in my relationship and sex life have been miraculous. I truly hope my experience can help you as well.
*These are my personal experiences and are for informational purposes only.